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Wednesday, January 7, 2015

#JeSuisCharlie

"I do not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it." -Voltaire

Today in Paris, one of the most beautiful cities in the world, terror won. Terror had its way with the freedoms and liberties the French admire and so adamantly express. So much so it is their national anthem.





After the shootings in Newtown, Massachusetts, I posted a comment on Facebook about the currency of chaos. How chaos will always have an open bank account, that it will always piss on the ideologies of freedom, peace and equality. That instead of controlling how we individually respond and react to the threats of chaos in our own lives, we need to understand that Yes, chaos is a reality and it needs to be called what it is.


The Islamic terrorists called themselves as such. They identified themselves as members of the Yemeni Al Qaeda. Al Qaeda is a self-identified Islamic terrorist group. They are not terrorists or crazies or fringe. They are an Islamic terrorist group. They rejoice in identifying themselves as Islamic, shouting their Takbir, "Allahu Akbar"..."god is Greatest".


The newspaper is no stranger to controversy. Prior to the Christian Christmas holiday Charlie Hebdo, the satirical newspaper targeted in today's attacks, published derogatory and offensive cartoons about the Virgin Mary. 
There were no assassinations after this publication. 

This attack was staged by *three* Yemeni gunmen. Three Yemeni gunmen made a military-like attack on a major French news organization and killed twelve people. Not for the Christian Christmas cartoons, mind you, which were also derogatory to another Prophet that Islam identifies as a prophet, Jesus Christ, but for a satirical cartoon published *three years ago*. 


Wow. Three years is an awfully long time to hold a grudge, people.


Three years ago Charlie Hebdo published some decidedly crude rude and offensive anti-Mohammed cartoons. While I don't necessarily approve of ANYone being crude, I am a true strong believer in free will. No matter how much I may disagree with one's philosophy, I understand that living in a free country is the price I pay for being offended. While I can be offended, that is the price I pay. As do others who may find offense with my statements. It's a small fee for freedom. 


When you speak under the fear of death, that is NOT freedom. That is chaos. That is fear. It is not living to be in constant fear of retribution.


The contrast between these two religions could not have become more clear to me this day. 


Islam: You all need a more confident prophet. Your prophet must be awfully insecure if he frets over the words and pictures of a coarse French mortal. You all need a prophet who does not give a shit. You all need a prophet who feels sadness and pity for those who mock him, not personally offended. You all need a prophet like that great man Jesus, who while being murdered on the cross begged forgiveness FOR his tormentors. Jesus cried up to his Father "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do". Jesus never cried for the sins committed against Him. He never wept for the personal hurt he experienced at their hands. He cried for the understanding of what that meant. He was confident enough to know what judgment befell those who condemned him. He didn't need to firebomb the temple or behead the Pharisees. 


I mean, yeah he may have overturned a table, but did he send the moneychangers to a soccer field for a public beheading? Hardly. 


True freedom means peace. I understand the meaning of true peace. I understand what making choices of free will, without fear of death or dismemberment, means to me as an American. I risk being persecuted. I risk being profiled by the IRS. I risk being called a "terrorist'. But let's be abundantly clear. 


I am not a Christian if I go running into a newspaper on Boxing Day in Paris, France screaming "Jesus is Greatest" and start killing those who hurt my feelings. I am a Christian terrorist. But I am not a Christian. 


That is why the hashtag #JeSuisCharlie is so important.
Charlie is about freedom to offend. Freedom to express. Freedom to experience Free Will. 

Free Will is not about chaos or repression or religious zealotry. Free will is about choosing to make a personal decision about what you believe. Who you believe. On your own without fear of recompense. 

Only promise of freedom. 


Islamic friends: Y'all need a more confident Prophet. I love you, but you shouldn't have to get personally offended by someone who mocks your Mohammed. Y'all need a Prophet who says: 



John 16:33New International Version (NIV)

33 “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”

Y'all need Jesus. 
Praying for the victims' families in Paris today. 

Saturday, October 11, 2014

Life outside of Itself

Permissions and Opinions are interchangeable and unfortunately not exclusive. You  want permission? You also get an opinion. Call it a 'freebie'. Until there is no longer need for permission- opinion will continue to be offered. And it may not even be on what permission is being asked for. Crazy!
You want an opinion? You don't need to ask permission. Unless you are asking permission. And then of course you will get an opinion. The coolest thing is: I totally respect your asking of permission and am not as likely to give my opinion on what you're asking my permission for. Because your asking permission trumps my opinion. But again they are exclusive of one another.
 My opinion is still exclusive of my permission. If you are still asking permission it tells me you still need my opinion.
 And then you get my opinion. Which you may not always respect. But it's my opinion. And because you asked my permission you also get my opinion.Which I give you out of respect. And Love.
And when you no longer need our permission? It's when in our opinion you don't need it anymore.
Which is when we drive away and leave our Life-our Life outside of ourselves-you- ready to Live alone.
Have you ever seen your Life walking outside of yourself-independent on yourself? It is a scary frightening thrilling thing. In my honest opinion. Sometimes it's terrifying. But mostly it's awesome.
We pray though that the permissions we've given and the opinions we've given will support a day... When you ask our opinion but you don't need our permission.

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Friday, July 18, 2014

MH17



Obama rips Romney on his Russian foreign policy. 2012 debate. Let's watch it again. How prescient the former Republican candidate was. 

What we see by the Candidate Obama is a daunting display of hubris and unfounded bravado. No one delights in the folly of the wicked, but one should take notice that in Life, somehow the truth always comes out. Despite the cost of lives.
Truth takes a heavy wage.
It's unfortunate that our current administration failed to take the crisis in the Ukraine seriously.
                                                       Maybe 295 people would still be alive.
Just maybe. 


Our thoughts and prayers are with the victims of this brutal act of terror. 

Here is how Obama handles the news of American lives lost yesterday


                                         

Maybe he should have waited and dedicated an entire news conference to an American terrorist attack.

In comparison here is how former Presidents reacted to the loss of  American lives caused by terrorism

President George W. Bush

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President Ronald Reagan on the loss of 60 American lives on Korean jetliner flight 007 



As I write this I am listening to the Youtube video of Clinton's speech on the tarmac from 1996 (I am sorry I could not post the video itself).
Something about the manner in which Clinton addressed his nation and acknowledged the victims' families was very moving to me.

Could someone please remind Mr. Obama that Yes, the 1980s called and they want their foreign policy back? That knocking sound? It's the sound of Buk missile on your airliner.

What has happened? What has happened to our nation? How do we go from compassion to 'calling it in'? Obama's remarks yesterday are going viral on Twitter...and he is not faring well.
If I agree with Piers Morgan, it must really be that bad out there. 


Monday, June 23, 2014

Going All Rapunzel

Literally one of the best articles on raising strong women  I have ever read....in book form or on the Interwebs. Good, good good.

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Parenting 101


Natural consequences are far worse than anything we could do as parents. It is not about being disobedient or not listening to us. It's about not caring about yourself enough to pay attention. As parents our hearts hurt just as much when mistakes are realized.
But not only because of disobedience. But out of the nature of natural consequences.
They are scary and bring things to light like maturity, reality and truth.
And as the saying goes...the truth hurts.

It stops being about us and our feelings long before we are ready to stop taking it personally. It's not about us. Maybe it never was. For many it will never be about making their parents happy. They have to find that compass from within.

The trick for parenting is this: to be available to them when natural consequences occur. Not only to see the reality pass over their countenance-and realize your own sympathy and feel compassion-but to teach your children that you are there. And you don't hate them. Yes you can be disappointed and feel angry and frustrated but remember----this stopped being about you a long, long time ago.

Natural consequences should never be taken personally.